Once, nightlife meant drinking, dancing, dinner and smokes. No more. I wouldn’t say we have become puritan, but life changes. Being there to soothe our babies nightmares and being there for breakfast, became our good time. Instead for running out to meet friends, it was more important of run home, see the kids, watch a little kid friendly TV, and cuddle together on the couch.
Little ones don’t stay little. It’s irksome how fast you live through that stage. Children grow from rug rats, to curtain climbers, to yard monkeys. They were busy years. Little league, scouts, music lessons, became the school newspaper, band, plays, track, plays, and musicals. Add some cross-country trips, graduations and weddings, and it was a very busy life indeed.
Now our quiet life is punctuated by visits with grandchildren. Holidays, when the family gets together, we pull out the air mattresses and fill up the house. For a brief time we are surrounded with laughter, stuff ourselves with our favorite foods, and spend time playing like kids. I can’t wait.
Exhausted, we send everyone home and we have a chance to recover as we get back to our peaceful routine. No, we aren’t puritan, just getting really mature.
Sending people home is rude, I try to do it but people ignore me 🙂
When my grand father used to think it was time for guests to leave he’d walk up to Nana and say, “Well mother we’ve kept these lovely people up very late, we really should let them get home to bed.” It worked most of the time too 🙂
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I think that was a very genteel way of saying, “You have to leave now!”
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That’s not what he said 🙂
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My kids are my anti-depressants!
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lol Marissa, good word for it. Kids are wonderful!
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Even other peoples kids are a delight.
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Absolutely.
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Still waiting for grandkids, but I’m an auntie and some of my nieces are exhausting 🙂
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Being an auntie is fun also, although I have lived pretty far from them most of my life, and now I enjoy pictures of the grandnieces and grandnephews.
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